Monday, November 3, 2008

Being the Ideal Employer to Your Loyal Domestic Helper

By Alice Sy

Keeping your domestic helper satisfied and motivated may seem like an easy task at first, but you have to understand that your helper has her needs and own set of goals as well. When hiring a household help you have to realize that you are in effect hiring your own employee, and that you have to treat your helper as a useful means in keeping your household in seamless order.

Thus, knowing the effective ways of retaining your domestic helper is very essential. It is important for you to establish a good relationship early on to provide a more welcoming atmosphere in your home. Moreover, it is important for the employer to set the terms and expectations earlier on in order to avoid unnecessary confusion much later.

As an ideal boss, you should also be able to set the expected salaries and other cash gifts that may be given from time to time. The salary, which could be given either on a weekly or monthly basis, should be of a fair and just amount. As an employer, you should be able to clarify monetary matters first and foremost to help prevent any problems in the future.

Your domestic helper moreover, should be provided with a clean and relaxed sleeping quarters or her own space where she feels most comfortable in. After an entire day of looking after the house or taking care of the children, she deserves to relax in a suitable area within the home.

An ideal employer will also have to initiate excellent exchanges of communication. This is will assure your house help that she is indeed a part of a team - in this case the family or the household. This will also assist your helper in becoming more open and less awkward to the rest of the family members.

Giving holiday bonuses to your household help will allow her to feel more appreciated and more accepted. This will also serve as a motivational tool for your helper to accomplish the family duties more faithfully and steadfastly.

Satisfaction from your helper also means that she is able to retain her own life and her own enjoyments in spite of serving your family and the entire household. A free toiletry set, a paid ticket to a show, or a short vacation will make your house help feel even more important and well thought of.

Keeping your helper means you and your family must treat her with respect, camaraderie, and appreciation. If you do so, keeping hold of your loyal domestic helper won't be a problem at all. - 15465

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